Last week, my daughter showed me a video of a guy singing this song titled "I Just Had Sex". Although the video wasn't explicit the words were more so. Basically the artist was singing about how happy he was that this woman allowed him to have sex with her. This got me thinking...
When women look at our bodies we are very critical, what I don't like here, what needs to be tucked in here, my fat....whatever?
When men look at us for the most part they are appreciative of our pretty face, our nice smile, our shapely figure but what they really want and think about is having sex. I would like to clarify that I said "for the most part". This may not be true for men in the 20's or powerful, successful men, their thoughts may lean toward the more material, using women as objects.
For the most part, men don't really focus on our fat body parts or anything else we don't like about ourselves. Why do we then focus on our defects? Our men simply want to be with us and if we allow ourselves to enjoy that and throw out our critical selves we will be much happier.
More thoughts on this to follow...
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