Every once in a while a client will moan when I give them a task. This past week my husband broke three ribs..ouch! He has been doing a lot of moaning.
What does a groan or a moan do for you? Does it make you feel better or worse? Does it help bring attention to you? Is this the intent?
I have been thinking since my husband's vocal moans this past weekend about what the moaning did for him. I asked him if it made him feel better but he could not answer me. I suggested he try to not concentrate on the pain by adding to it with a moan. I don't know if that worked but he did stop groaning and moaning so much!
I am going to start pointing out groans and moans to clients and see what they have to say. In the meantime, if you want attention by all means groan and moan. But it might add to the unpleasantness of the situation you are not happy about.
Just a thought!
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